Titus 2:4 "..train the younger women to love their husbands and children...."
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(This post follows a 2 week series. You can read about it here.)

I HAD to figure out a way for my house to help me out with some of the work that was taking me so much of my time!!

I wanted to manage my time, and not have time manage me!  I wanted to spend more time on relationships, and NOT my house.

Here are some tips that helped me:

De-clutter, de-clutter, de-clutter, and get rid of, get rid of, get rid of. Too much stuff ROBS us of time. I needed help from a dear friend to de-clutter my house.

I then learned how to manage my stuff, and haven’t needed help to de-clutter again. I am continually getting rid of things. It DOES NOT COME NATURALLY FOR ME. If I can do it, you can! (I’ll post more about this tomorrow!)

I made only simple meals from Monday-Friday. Not lots of pans or pots to wash. I just didn’t want the prep or clean up time. I made a list of 20 easy meals to make, and I made them every weeknight!

I removed some furniture from each room, including some bureaus. The rooms were  easier to vacuum and open spaces make rooms look brighter and cleaner! Bureaus become breeding grounds for stuff!

All of my children and I took a few minutes before each meal, and at 9:00 AM and 3:00 PM to clean up the kitchen, living room and bathroom. I taught the children how to do ALL of the tasks from a very early age!

I bought Pledge wipes and other cleaning wipes, (although they are expensive), and put containers in each room. It made little clean- ups easy , which made our weekly clean-ups easier.

I purposely invited company over at least every 3-4 weeks. It forced me to keep a neater house.

I’ll share more ideas tomorrow, but I’d LOVE to hear some of yours!

Photo of hubby and me at our daughter’s high school graduation party this summer!

 Bonni is the author of Mom By Example

  1. Sarah
    I love your blog, Bonni, and find it such a daily source of encouragement here in the trenches of mothering young ones! I have loved your time management posts recently and the godly focus on the big picture it helps me have. This sounds to me like such an insignificant thing but I recently read of a mother who always runs the dishwasher after lunch so that it is clean and ready to emptied before starting dinner prep! This just about blew my mind because I had always worked from the premise that I needed to wait until it was completely full before running it. That often meant a ton of dishes to wash by hand in the evenings after eating - keeping me from the precious times with my children and husband! Now I run it every single day after lunch even if it is only half full and I load dishes into it as a cook dinner, and then run it again after dinner so it is full of nice, clean dishes for breakfast the next morning! It has simplified my life so much and I am so glad this tip came before the arrival of our third baby in a few months! With a 1 1/2 year old and a 3 year old, toy organization has been a huge key for me this year too! We have all of our toys sorted into four different under-bed storage bins and just pull out one bin per day. This makes our frequent tidy-up times and evening clean-up before dinner much easier since the toys tend to stay near to the toy bin in the living room and there are only a few things out at a time! (It also has the added benefit of keeping toys novel and encourages longer attention to the few toys they have available at a time.) Thanks, and please keep the wonderful tips, examples, wisdom and encouragement coming my way!
    • Bonni
      Thanks Sarah for taking the time to comment, and for your kind words! i LOVE the idea of the under the bed storage bins for toys!! The idea that I'm going to share today about toys is not as good as that one! I think that I'll direct readers to your comment! Congratulations on your pregnancy! How wonderful to have 3 in 3 years! Your life is blessed!
  2. Robin Kramer @ Pink Dryer Lint
    Bonnie, I just wrote about similar things in my last posts! You're right: clutter not only takes up physical space, but it can take up emotional space and time as well. Great advice to incorporate the kids in the cleaning process, too!
    • Bonni
      Yes, I agree!!!! I forgot to mention the emotional strain that clutter causes!!! Thanks for sharing and for taking the time to comment!!
  3. Amanda
    Inviting company over works for me, too! Plus, it has a lot of other benefits - deepening friendships, helping build a better sense of community, fellowship, etc.
    • Bonni
      Yes, you are so right! You can see my selfish motives :) Ooops :) Thanks for commenting!
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